A counselor said that parents can establish a proper relationship with their child by paying attention to the interests of the teenager. For example, if a teenager likes a certain athlete or follows her favorite actor on social networks, parents should not ridicule and criticize this behavior of the teenager and start giving advice, but empathy is very effective in these situations.
In an interview with Isna, Maryam Fuladi said about the emergence of different behaviors from teenagers during adolescence and the need for parents to pay attention and empathize with them: It is necessary for parents to empathize with their teenagers and respect their interests in order to help them socialize.
Emphasizing that the role of parents is very important in the growth and socialization of children and adolescents, he stated: Untrusting, evasive, aggressive, unstable, dependent, etc. parents should not expect their children not to show these behaviors. The role of parents in the socialization of teenagers is very important, and in this way, parents should be careful about their behavior and avoid mocking the interests of teenagers or giving advice about their behavior.
Stating that every human being is born with unique traits, personality and temperament, this consultant grows according to her traits and temperament under the influence of a special educational method, she added: All these factors play a role in the formation of the child’s values, and when the child reaches the adolescent stage, these values are internalized and effective in the formation of his individual identity.
